Time for a rant...
On April 6th, 2013..I married Mike.
Later that night, I was saving pictures to my computer and realized something....
I knew that I had some weight to lose. After I stopped breastfeeding Jayden (who is now 9 months), I KNOW I gained. What I DIDN'T know...was just how bad I look.
It was a horrible feeling to see myself in these pictures. It is STILL a horrible feeling.
How do I handle this? Well the obvious is to begin what I need to do to lose this weight. Of course I hear all the following:
- You JUST had a baby 9 months ago!
THANKS for pointing out the obvious..but that is NO excuse. And I refuse to be one that uses that as an excuse to not make changes to better myself and current conditions.
-You look gorgeous! Stop!
I love my friends...but not so much the biased opinions that come from them. LOL. My friends love me...and at times I believe that it hinders their eye sight a tad. mmhmm. Tell it to me like it is, sista's!
- You are too hard on yourself!
Well if I'm not hard on myself, who will be?!
In a world made of excuses...I refuse to accept them.
All that I can do is change and work to fix the problems...but that doesn't mean that it doesn't bother me. It surely does!
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